Has Your Style Mojo Gone AWOL? Why it Happens and How to Get it Back
Do you find yourself standing in front of your wardrobe, feeling uninspired and lost when it comes to your personal style?
There are lots of reasons why it happens, but if your fashion sense seems to have left the building, it can have a significant impact on self-esteem and confidence.
The good news is that you can get it back! Read on for practical tips on how to reconnect with your personal style.
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Understanding Style Mojo -
What is it and why does it matter?
Style Mojo (Noun): magical combination of confidence, creativity, and self-expression.
It isn't just about looking good, it's about feeling good and being the best version of yourself. You express your uniqueness through your clothes and when you're in sync with your style, your outfits become a powerful form of self-expression. It gives you the ability to make a statement about who you are and what you stand for without saying a word.
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2. the Signs of a Lost Style Mojo.
Feeling Uninspired by Your Wardrobe
If you only feel "meh" about most of the clothes you own and you struggle to put together outfits that excite you.
Lack of Confidence in Clothing Choices
Was there a time when you used to dress with confidence, knowing you looked pretty good? If you're questioning your clothing choices and constantly doubting if you're nailing it or failing it.
Repetitive and Boring Outfits
If your outfits have become predictable and you only wear a few on rotation and ignore the rest.
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3. The causes and triggers.
Life Events and Style Shifts
Life changes and events like the pandemic, a new job, a breakup, or becoming a parent are style curveballs. Suddenly, you find yourself lost in a sea of baggy jumpers and jeggings because your norms and routines are broken.
Influence of External Factors on Personal Style
Sometimes, the opinions of others or societal pressure can affect your style mojo. Maybe someone made an offhand comment about your outfit, or you've been bombarded with unrealistic beauty standards from magazines or social media and it’s made you feel insecure.
Lack of Time
Life gets busy. But when you start letting your personal appearance go a bit and using "I don't have time" as an excuse to put on the first thing that comes to hand every morning, your style mojo suffers. Taking a few extra minutes to put together an outfit that makes you feel good can work wonders for your confidence.
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4. Tips and techniques to rediscover your personal style.
Clothes That You Loved Wearing
Think back to outfits that you wore and loved, making you feel on top of your game. What were the elements that made those outfits stand out; eg. the cut of the trousers., the neckline of the dress or the waistline? Incorporating those aspects into your current style will help you get back on track.
Experiment a Bit
Step out of your comfort zone and experiment with new styles, colours, and patterns. We tend to get into a habit of wearing the same pieces in the same combinations, so try creating outfits from your wardrobe that you haven’t tried before .
Fashion is meant to be fun, so be a bit experimental!
Do Trends in Your Own Way
Trends come and go, but your personal style is timeless. You don’t need to follow fashion too closely, pick and choose the ones that resonate with you. Adapt trends and make them work for you, not the other way around.
If you're not into trends, that's fine. Instead, focus on finding inspiration from other sources, such as vintage fashion and cultural influences, creating your own signature style. The key is to feel confident and comfortable in what you wear, regardless of whether it happens to be on-trend or not.
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5. Building Confidence: How to boost your self-esteem through clothing and accessories.
Sometimes confidence takes a hit and we find ourselves questioning our style choices. But, clothing and accessories can actually be powerful tools to boost your self-esteem and help you regain your style mojo.
Focus on What You Want to Highlight
One of the keys to feeling confident in your clothes is to dress for your body shape. Understanding your body type and knowing the shapes and styles that flatter your figure can make all the difference. Choose clothing that accentuates your best features and makes you feel fabulous.
Choosing Colours and Patterns that Suit You
Colours and patterns can have a big impact, so find the ones that complement your skin tone and make you glow. Go with patterns that you’re drawn to and reflect your personality. When you feel good in what you're wearing, your confidence will shine through.
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6. Seek Inspiration.
If you've lost your style mojo, it’s helpful to look at fashion blogs and industry experts as a source of inspiration. There are style editors and fashion bloggers who share your taste and can give you fresh ideas.
Magazines like ‘Red’ and stylist.co.uk are great for guiding you through current trends and showing you how to interpret different looks.
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7. work to your budget.
Updating your wardrobe doesn't have to break the bank. Budget-friendly options like charity shops and online pre-loved sites are treasure troves, if you put in the time and patience.
Remember, style is not about the price tag, but how you wear it. Using accessories can help transform your existing wardrobe without spending a fortune.
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8. Develop an evolving personal style.
Consider building an adaptable, curated wardrobe, a curated collection of essential pieces that can be mixed and matched to create endless outfits. A capsule wardrobe not only streamlines your style choices but also encourages you to be intentional with your purchases and focus on quality over quantity.
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Remember, rediscovering your style mojo is a journey, and it's okay to have wobbles along the way. Embrace the process of exploring new looks, seeking inspiration, and building confidence through clothing and accessories. Embrace your unique style identity and allow it to evolve as you grow.
With the tips and techniques provided in this article, you can confidently step out of your fashion rut and reclaim your style mojo.
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